First meeting with your ex: the time constraint
Posted on June 30th, 2010 by admin
When meeting your ex for the first time after your break up, you should impose a “time constraint”. For instance, you can say that you have other commitments and that you will have to leave after half an hour. Of course, these commitments should be real, in order to give you confidence and credibility. One benefit of this time limit is to force both of you to avoid lengthy and sterile discussions about past incidents or arguments, and to focus on the essential. Combined with an improved appearance and a full schedule, this should make him/her want you again. Once this process is launched, everything should work like a charm, and your ex should come back rather quickly.
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